Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Remembering what's important during a busy season of life



Whew! We just came off of a very busy summer and it just flew by way too fast. As I reflect on what this summer was about for us, I realize that it was about family and as much as family is important, the more important thing for us in life is our relationship with God and honestly, I didn't get to spend the amount of time I should have or would have liked to have spent with my Lord. I had such goals for the summer with growing closer to the Lord through study and it just didn't happen. For me, it was much more about just talking and praying to Him as I went through activities during my day.

Here's what we did do:
-Welcomed our oldest son home from the mission field and shared a car with him all summer long. This was quite a challenge on some days and we are thankful for the co-worker who started picking him up in the mornings. What a joy it was to have him home and to sit and talk to him about his life, his faith and his goals.
-Helped our daughter move into her own apartment. Our daughter has had a goal for some time to move out on her own and so after accomplishing a list of things we required she received our blessing to do so. She also took her Golden Retriever with her, so it's not just her that we are missing. Our relationship dynamics have changed somewhat and it's a joy to visit with her during the week and hear about what's going on in her life. She says her favorite thing about living on her own is not being told what to do. I love her honesty.
-Prepared our house for sale. This was a lot of work, however, it paid off! We sold our house in 20 days and we can finally say, "We're completely debt free".
-Found a new place to live and moved. This is exhausting, between having sales to get rid of stuff, donating stuff, throwing things away, packing, moving, unpacking. This is crazy. There were times that I wanted to cry from pure exhaustion. There were times that we needed to grab fast food because we couldn't or hadn't stopped working in time to make food. There were times that our eight year old was given permission to "watch one more movie" just so that I could keep him busy long enough to be able to keep packing or unpacking.
-Enjoyed a couple of days at Symphony on the Prairie, Six-Flags, Holiday World, the zoo and a MLB game between the Brewers and the Reds. I'm so glad that most of these things were done before the house went on the market and that we were able to really enjoy our time with each other when doing these activities.
-Celebrated our youngest turning another year older. It's always fun to celebrate a birthday, however, it's especially fun to celebrate with children who are still excited about having birthdays. Such a joy for all of us!
-And lastly, we sent our oldest son off to Israel for a year. We're excited for him and even a little bit jealous. We can't wait to see what God is going to do in this young man's life. We miss him so much!

Now that we have settled a little bit more into a routine, we've started school again, started up our activities again and have been able to sit down and spend time with the Lord again in Bible study. It's interesting how God never walks away or leaves us as people on this earth do. He's patient, unlike so many of us. He's just waiting for us to come to him and spend time with us and I'm so glad to be able to do that again.

One goal for the fall is to lead a marriage study for six weeks and make our relationship with God our priority. That sounds pretty simple and easy doesn't it? The distractions of this world though are all around us ready to distract us from what's important. Please pray along with us that married couples would take just six Tuesday's out of their schedule and make this a priority. Check this out if you can't join us:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DV66dQZAdbM&feature=share&list=PLSzse1nmlqbKceAPlWGdoO2T5_J4SaUQh

Consider attending one of these weekend or small group studies in your area. If you live in our area, contact us for more information and join us in making God a priority in your life and the life of your marriage.





Tuesday, February 5, 2013

"I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine". Song of Solomon 6:3a

February is here. The month most people think about Groundhog Day and St. Valentine's Day.

I must admit, I decorate my house with hearts and red and anything pretty during February. It takes my mind off of the cold, dreary winter days. I've heard nurses say that October is a very busy month for babies being born because of February 14th. Why do we need a day set aside every year to say "I love you" to our sweethearts? Shouldn't we be expressing that love to them everyday of the year?

I've heard many a man complain about the "made up" holiday and they don't like to spend money on a silly holiday. Don't go into debt for Valentine's Day. If you haven't set aside some extra money to buy something or to go out to eat, then find something FREE to do.

Write a hand-written love letter to your beloved. When I'm alone on those weekends that my husband is working for the military or when he was deployed last year to Afghanistan, it was his hand-written letters and cards that he has given to me over the last 21 years that I pulled out to read. Those are more precious to me than anything money could buy. 

Pick up a movie from the library and snuggle up together under a blanket.

Play a board game or a card game together and laugh.

Spend some time asking each other questions about your dreams and goals for the year or the next ten years.

Pray together. Thank God for the spouse that He has given you and ask God to bless your marriage and protect the two of you from taking each other for granted.

Try something new this year. Why not sit down with your beloved and read through the Song of Solomon together. There's just eight chapters. Start on February 7th and read one chapter a night before you go to bed with each other.
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Song+of+Solomon+1&version=ESV

Here's a couple commentaries regarding this book:

http://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/song-solomon/

http://www.gty.org/resources/bible-introductions/MSB22/song-of-solomon

If you have some money in your budget why not consider a few of these ideas:

Grab a great book and read it together to strengthen your marriage, here is one we recommend;
https://paultripp.sitewrench.com/Store_CategoryProducts.aspx?cid=6c2D4324464e88540g

How about surprising your spouse with a marriage conference? You can go to any city you want and get a discount here:

http://shop.familylife.com/events_1.aspx?categoryid=97&groupName=HarbourShores

There are many other marriage conferences that are available, we just can't offer you a discount to any of them. So, if you don't like the Weekend to Remember, look for something else and make your marriage a priority.

Happy February and Happy St. Valentine's Day!

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Anniversary of Roe vs Wade 2013 Part 2

If you didn't see the first Part of this blog, go back to it and take a look at the video posted there. It breaks my heart to think that so many babies have died unnecessarily.

I know there are many families that would adopt a baby that parents didn't think they could take care of. I know that if we could afford adoption, we would have been one of those families who had done that. Our youngest son is eight years old. We've prayed for and have tried to add to our family, and that just hasn't been God's plan for us. Just this morning, our son said, "mom, I want a baby brother, one that I can play with".

Please watch this video: 

http://vimeo.com/3091491

Next, please listen to this message from my pastor. This is the 2nd part of his sermon.

http://www.hscaudio.org/2013/01/coming-sunday-what-does-the-bible-say-about-the-unborn-part-2/

Please pray about what you can do about this.

If you know someone who is pregnant and is considering abortion, please urge them to give the baby up for adoption if they don't think they can parent the baby. So many parents would be blessed by their gift of life.


Monday, January 21, 2013

Anniversary of Roe vs Wade 2013

On Tuesday, 40 years will have gone by since the Roe vs Wade case that changed America. It's a very sad day. Please take the time to view these links that I have posted:

First watch this video:
http://www.peterheck.com/speaking/vabortion

Next listen to this part 1 sermon.
http://www.hscaudio.org/2013/01/coming-sunday-what-does-the-bible-say-about-the-unborn/

Next go to this link to see what you might be able to do.
http://www.rememberingroe.com

Now please pray!