Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Remembering to be Thankful




“Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18



Happy Thanksgiving!

If you are like our family you realize that you are very blessed and sometimes like our family you forget to rejoice and thank God for those blessings. 

Our family has known that we are a blessed family and yet going through a deployment can heighten that awareness. Now that Keith is back and we’re all getting back into a “normal” routine, it’s easy to forget again. 

I don’t want to forget. I want to remember that while Keith was gone, God provided for our family in many ways. I want to remember that Keith did find out what it was like to be in a war zone and how God did protect him while he was there. I want to remember that some spouses don’t come home alive or they come home as disabled veterans. 

When our focus changes from complaining about our circumstances to being thankful for our circumstances then we can see how we’ve been blessed and we can thank the one that those blessings come from. 

Before the rush of Christmas creeps into your life, take a little time this Thanksgiving to remember how blessed your family is and give thanks for those blessings.

Monday, November 5, 2012

Why a Veteran's Day?



Why celebrate Veteran’s Day? One important reason to me is that in God’s Word, the Bible, He says we should give “…respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed.” Romans 13:7b What does the word respect and honor mean here? It means that God demands that we show sincere respect and an attitude of genuine high esteem for all public officials. (MacArthur commentary)

Here’s a link to the History of Veteran’s Day:       
In November 1919, President Wilson proclaimed November 11 as the first commemoration of Armistice Day with the following words: "To us in America, the reflections of Armistice Day will be filled with solemn pride in the heroism of those who died in the country’s service and with gratitude for the victory, both because of the thing from which it has freed us and because of the opportunity it has given America to show her sympathy with peace and justice in the councils of the nations…"

Do you need more reasons to celebrate Veteran’s Day? How about that these folks make all kinds of sacrifices to serve in America’s volunteer military force. They sacrifice time away from their families, they sacrifice financial gain, they sacrifice freedom to come and go as they please. How about the sacrifices that their families make? Have you thought about these sacrifices? I thought I had, I thought I knew exactly how hard it was for military families until my husband was deployed and away from our family for eight and a half months. Now I know. I also know that there is a difference if you are a Guard family and not active duty. 

We are all busy and there is always something that will call for our attention. We had to make that choice for this upcoming weekend. Derby race is normally the first weekend of the month. Anything scheduled on the first weekend of the month means that my husband can’t participate because it’s a Guard weekend. This year though the Derby race was scheduled for the second weekend of the month and we thought, “Yea, daddy can actually go this year.” However, we found out that the Veteran’s Day Parade in our area is going to be on the same day. We talked about it and we’ve decided to choose to honor Veteran’s and go to the parade. One of the reasons we chose that is because we sense that younger families no longer understand just the simple etiquette that we are to show people in authority. This past summer during a Fourth of July parade, I was sad to see that most families did not stand up when the Flag was carried by or when Veteran’s walked by. I think that the younger people don’t have the same respect for people who have sacrificed like older people do. We are determined to make sure our kids understand what sacrifices have been made for us all. 

Now for our family the most important sacrifice that has been made for us all comes from the sacrifice that Jesus made for us. Jesus was crucified on the cross and took the punishment that should have been ours. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.” John 3:16-17  

Take a look at this video, we think it shares the sacrifice that Jesus made clearly.


So, the sacrifice that Jesus made is much more important than the sacrifices that American military people have made and yet, we still believe that it’s important to honor Veteran’s. 

Here are some suggestions of how you may be able to do that before next Sunday, November 11, 2012:
*Send a note of encouragement to someone who has served. 

*Thank someone verbally; a simple “Thank you for your sacrifice or service to America” is very encouraging to someone. 

*Participate in Veteran’s Day parades or ceremonies.

*Do you have a neighbor that is currently serving or has served? How about inviting them for a meal or making a dessert for them with a note saying how much you appreciate them.

*Find a USO or a VA hospital and volunteer to help at those locations. 

*Adopt a military member and write letters and send packages to them. 

*Pray for military members. 



I love this picture because it’s just hours after my husband came home and our youngest son just couldn’t believe that his daddy was finally home.